Millions of dollars are made and lost in the pursuit of the largest muscles, fastest gate, hair replacements, plastic surgeries, implants and liposuction removals to at least give the physical appearance of our basic standards of prowess. Many times life changes and new habits can help a person become stronger, healthier, more control of their anger, and be able to exhibit traits of an alpha male without using techniques such as plastic surgeries.
Being physically attractive adds even more layers to the subjective mix. Is it blonde hair, fair skin blue eyes? Is it brown hair, dark eyes and a wonderfully tan physic the alpha trump card? Or could it be salt and pepper hair, emerald green eyes, and five o’clock shadow? See what I mean? This can go on forever.
So we must look more deeply than just the skin level? What is the driving force that creates an alpha male? In the area of strength, think of the men who hold themselves with good posture and cause people to make a path for them? People can see strength and beauty, but they can also feel it. Good posture, strong solid gait, and a serious facial expression (not grimace) goes a long way toward alpha greatness.
Some say that physical features may not be the most important aspect or even an important aspect at all. What about intelligence? Does a PhD make a man an alpha? Furthermore, does the speaking of many languages, being a medical doctor, a school professor, or astronaut trump good muscles and straight teeth? For some, intelligence is the most important factor. For others it is simply the icing on an already tasty cake.
Style isn’t always determined by the amount of money spent on a wardrobe, car, home or any other aspect of life. Style is a state of mind. Style is allowing everyone around you know that you have your mind on what is important. Loafers and jeans can be just as stylish as a thousand dollar suit if worn with swagger.
A home can be small and stylish or large and boorish. Size really doesn’t matter. It is the collection of items that are important to the person. Sometimes less is more. Sometimes smaller is the answer. Choose wisely the things that are in your life and you will find style to be much easier to obtain.
Don’t Force It Too Much
His style is not forced. He doesn’t try to have style, he simply allows the nature within him to help him accept his surroundings. He’s fascinated by the wonders of everyone around him. He constantly strives to improve himself a bit each day. He realizes it is a work in progress from the first breath til the last. He engages in being a part of surrounding life, by the opportunity that each day presents. He’s genuine in every facet of who he is. Each of the characteristics are possessed by him naturally, or will be as he grows as a man. Bred from curiosity, a genuine kindness, and a warrior’s heart, he is who he is, and all others follow him because they can sense a presence that is larger than their own.